Love may be an emotion Tante Girang Emma Cantik triggered by what we get or not get. It is as simple as that. Or that. For now we must distinguish between what we need and what we want. This is not an easy distinction to make, but possible and in fact necessary to explore. Because I may want all sorts of things that I do not really, really need. Therefore, the unhappiness is reflected in the anger, hatred and hostility can be a basis for chronic unwise relationship trained in another language or what I want when I want and I will consider myself to be loved and I'm not loved.
Now we have to introduce that tease - pun intended - a beautiful small problems stimulation that can easily mess this topic thing called love. Sigmund Freud entered this comment with a deep insight into the excitement of love whether we like it or not. This is a deep discussion that will be reduced to very simple statement that changed the cuddly comfort into hormonal chaos and love easily become inundated with eroticism and a loving relationship can be highly polluted by the desire for love, affection and demands. Love then may become defined as and blinded not by what I need but by what I want and sexual stimulation may really become the sole basis for what I call love. Love does get complicated when it is reduced to pleasantries via hair style, physical design and external appearances.