Tante Girang Jogja Seksi It's commonly assumed that men can't buy their wives good gifts. Family jokes include the story of the time Dad bought Mom a lawnmower or an outboard motor. Or the blender that caused the biggest family argument ever. Have you heard the one about the husband who offered to pay for his wife's liposuction? Over time the incident is downplayed and becomes the stuff of legend. Women are as guilty of this as men; I've heard many wives state that they picked out what they wanted, wrapped it up and told their husbands what they purchased. One Father's Day I gave my husband the standing jewelry box I'd always wanted. We all laugh about it but secretly I believe there's a bit of hurt in that laughter. There's a sense of not being heard, of being overlooked or even ignored.